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It is ok to exist just to exist


I am very glad that I am surrounded by many amazing ladies. I realised they are all slightly elder than me. I almost do not have any close female friends that are younger than me, I have no idea why.

But with these jiejies (elder sisters), they taught me a lot, dote on my a lot, treating me like the younger sister. Being the only child, I take comfort in small things like this. They are all in different life stages, and through them, I get to see/feel/understand how things may turn out for me in the future. And I think I am prepared for whatever to come.

I really appreciate their presence. I have learnt to be brave, to be funny, to be considerate, to be independent. I don't think I can express how glad to have them in my life.

Just my two cents on a bored humid Saturday afternoon.

What I have learnt

A 25 years old life lesson




Parisian Spring

1 March

A brand new chapter


It's been a long day without you, my friend
And I'll tell you all about it when I see you again
We've come a long way from where we began
Oh I'll tell you all about it when I see you again
When I see you again

Chinese New Year 2019

Happy Chinese New Year!!

New year, definitely new beginnings.

Decision made, letter submitted, air tickets booked. Scary but it is the only way.

To a better and brighter 2019, are you coming with me?


I did not do a "Xincerely Rewind" for 2018, it will just be the same old story that I am quite sick of. 

Today, on the first day of 2019, Dixin asked me what is my new year resolution. I think she asked me that last year too and gave the same answer: "I haven't think of it." Honestly, if she hasn't asked, I probably will not even bother coming up with new year resolution, because it is probably the same old disappointments at the end of the year. lol. (Actually, I did cross out a few like traveling alone,  trying boxing - which has been on my resolution list for the longest time, and I am really happy to finally cross it out this year. Sadly, I wish I can continue.)

But since she got me started thinking, so here is my new year resolution list:
  1. 1. Lose 5kg by April 
  2. 2. Drink lesser, be more sober 
  3. 3. Eat clean-er, be healthy
  4. 4. Finding peace with myself, to fully understand that there is no standard CPS in life. Everyone has their own pace, doesn't matter if someone gets married at 22 or graduate at 32, doesn't matter if broken up after 5 years or got together in 5 days. The only thing that matters is just pacing myself. 
  5. 5. To only do things that makes me happy. Start doing what I really want to do. Re #4, doesn't matter what other people are achieving at 25, what success looks like to them, just pursue what's matter to me.
  6. 6. Cry lesser
  7. 7. Be tough - do not settle or give in for anything less than what I deserve. If all he wants is your body, he is definitely not the one. Painful lesson learnt in 2018, could have prevented everything that happened in 2018.  
  8. 8. Learn dance (??) - specifically feminine vibes kinda of dance lol.
  9. 9. Hopefully I can find some more travel buddies - like more adventurous and spontaneous ones that are willing to ride camel with me in the desert on a random Wednesday afternoon. 
  10. 10. Be cool - Nothing really matters, just live it. 
Hopefully when I look back at this in 364 days' time, I can be proud of myself. 

Happy new year! Happy 2019!


What you can do in a carpark beside parking your car.